My dearest Allen is away in California. So this post is mostly for his amusement. … He likes food blogs, so there is a lot about food, and a lot about my life, so that he knows some of the things I’ve been doing. Here goes….

This is my first meal without you, Allen (well..the first one i actually cooked…) I took snow peas, green peppers, zucchini, cauliflower and green peppers and threw them into a pan to steam them. ( I didn’t find the steamer until later) …I also boiled some noodles. (click on all the pictures to see full sizes..)

I was going to put some beans in… but they were a little… expired….

While I was doing this…. Kushi’s water broke (make large and look at her bum!)

Despite a kitten birth catastrophe, my dinner ended up cooked and delicious. I put some italian salad dressing on top to give it a kick! and mmmmm it was goooood.

For dessert Fe Lee Pe had bought 2lbs of blueberries for $$4!!!! Holy moly!!! So me and the german enjoyed.

Also, John and I got into our first real fight so I got flowers. SO PRETTY! <3

That weekend I went home to Guelph. Where I did some productive things like fix my shoes.

One night I was very hungry and took advantage of being at my moms house, so i use all her food. I used pears, blue cheese, walnuts, cucumbers, lettuce and raspberry dressing to make the most delicious salad EVER. Soooo good. I love cheese. We should use it more often…. or just eat it with like a fork.

Then I had a bubble bath because my parents have this amazing bubble tub that makes it look like the movies… so cool

And this is my new work equipment for the radio show!! My desk is a fucking disaster, I know. But I love that stuff. I can’t wait to start recording like everything. So awesome.

SCHOOL STARTS SOOOOON!!! AAAAAAAAAAAH!

ALLEN! COME HOME TO ME!

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So… The Edger is up and kicking. THere was a bit of a …. kurfuffle and whathaveyou about it. but. all is good. Here is my first post that I’ve put up over there. Ones in the making are….. Art in Secularism, Rocks and Fluff Don’t Work (it’ll be a good one), atheists in the media (revisted) aaaaaand… yeah. That’s all I got.

This is a response to Chris’ post: Why atheism is a rich man’s world - and how we can change it
I get it, women like being included, and that’s fine. Honestly now, it’s not like we’re excluding women in this faction. But! Before I get to the meat of Chris’ post, I just wanted to comment on a couple smaller pedantic issues:

ландшафтConstant reminders consisting of everything from TV ads to misused pronouns don’t let us forget the struggle with basic civil and social rights that women have battled, past and present alike.

Yes, and consistently feminists all over North America are using these “reminders” to slam men every chance they get. But for some reason the sexism against men is completely over looked. There are ads in the Toronto subways right now for the restaurant Moxies. I hear a couple of girls talking about how “sexist” the ad is because the woman is depicted in a pretty slut-tastic dress and all her jewelry is being pulled to the man beside her who is wearing an outfit that would make him out to be a magnet. They ended their conversation with “the guy is pretty sexy though”. … WTF?

It’s hardly a secret that there just tend to be more men in science.

So is it because our “movement” is so science oriented that there are fewer women? Maybe we should focus on the arts more in our programming to draw in a new (and possibly more feminine […stereotype alert!]) crowd? Hmm. Just a thought.

This is one of the more unfortunate side effects of “new atheism” brought up by the (otherwise exceptional) lead of Dawkins, Hitchens and Harris: the “big three” of non-belief nowadays.

I’m not sure that it’s their gender that is the unfortunate thing about these three men, it’s the lack of connection with individuals and how many people can’t relate to them that is truly unfortunate. What I’d like to see is someone who can talk reasonably about religion and life – but not be full of fluff with whom I can relate to. Woman or not.

Anyway, onto my real points!

The “new face” of atheism – as it seems to be called – is indeed very white male oriented. But why does this matter? Secularism in the public sphere is a somewhat innovative fad we’re diving into. Only recently have people felt comfortable enough to leap out and declare atheism as a way to brand themselves. Realistically, it just so happens that those who had the time and money to start this whole atheistic movement were white, well-off men. But the important part, is that it happened! And that it’s still happening! Now about who is running it.

Being involved with secularism, the movement, is a privilege. It’s a privilege that many people simply don’t have. It’s like complaining that you’re soup is too hot – people with another option can do it. And it seems like the people who did have this option, were white males, so they started this new stream of atheism. And it’s that, new… you can’t expect it to be a plethora of sexes and races when it’s barely accepted by the public at large!

But that entire point is extraneous, much like actively attempting to get women involved. It’s futile. The people who are currently involved are the ones who desire to be; at this point we should be attempting to get more people in general involved, not simply encouraging women to step into the movement. If I spent my time trying to get our women volunteers more active and encouraging them to be more vocal within our groups – I’d be wasting a whole lot of time where I could be doing more productive things like giving support to our already active volunteers.

Aggressively encouraging women to get involved is just like affirmative action. We start overlooking a plethora of capable people simply to be more inclusive. We look at a group of say 10 individuals, where 1 is a female…we ask the female to do the work simply because she’s a women and it turns out she’s the least capable. I’ve just wasted all of my time and invested interest in this person who is less capable than 9 other people, but I overlooked that point because for some reason we think that having women involved with organizations makes them more successful? Makes them more appealing? Makes us look less sexist? What?

Who cares what sex we have working with us? I don’t feel like I could relate to a woman Paul Kurtz any more or less than I can relate to the male Paul Kurtz. It’s reverse discrimination, as this unwarranted need for a closer male to female ratio requires the very discrimination that supporters are seeking to eradicate.
I personally think we have bigger fish to fry than putting energy into getting women involved. To be completely straightforward, I don’t have time to wave my hand at all the women screaming at them “Hey! Look! It’s fun! And non-patriarchal!” …Because those who want to be involved are already here, and are already contributing.

There is no “anti-women” sign on any of our doors. The exact same opportunities are available to women as are to men. When I’m looking for someone to fill a position, I’m just looking for a committed body and mind, not a gender. Why not invest our interests somewhere that it makes sense, like putting time, energy and money into art programs. (By stereotypical nature this would eventually lead to an increase in women, but that’s not the point.) It’s an entire social, cultural and academic side of things that we hardly ever touch on, but where there is a market for our mindsets and thoughts. Some of your are going to argue that women add more diversity, and different thoughts. …Any number of people despite sex, age or race are going to add diversity! I have the same opinions and thoughts as most of the guys in my little secular group. I don’t add diversity.

A social movement such as secularism is equal opportunity. If there are women out there pining to save the world from religion, teach other about science education or explore the paranormal they’re more than welcome to come on it. But I’m not going to waste my time convincing them that it’s okay to do that.

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The Good and the Bad

Written by Katie Kish in S'all bout moi

Toronto

good: everyone seems to be passionate about something… and the subway system
bad: it really smells sometimes.

York

good: it’s a pretty campus, and their course selection is half decent
bad: it’s an hour from downtown, in the middle of sketch-o-rific town

University

good: i like to learn, so that’s always a plus
bad: the administration. i can’t take one course, but if i really want to i can go to a building get a form, get 2 profs to sign it, have it sprinkled with fairy dust and shit on by a unicorn… then they’ll think about letting me take it.

Work (CFI)

good: I’m getting paid to do something I love… and something I believe in… I go in everyday and it’s not repeatative
bad: I’m there ALL the time. I go in hours earlier than I’m supposed to and always stay at least an hour late. If someone can’t show up for a shift, I stay… I go on weekends, for events, etc. I’m ALWAYS there.

Not having a house

good: it’s cheap? allen and john don’t charge me to stay over
bad: I never have alone time… so I can’t ever blog, rarely get to read or do any of those things that I do when I’m alone.

Boyfriend

good: everything feels okay
bad: everything feels scary and you have to wait for the washroom

Money

good: having it
bad: not having it… and having a $200 cell phone bill…

America

good:… I’ll come back to that
bad: roaming charges that result in $200 phone bills. -_-

Pot

good: …It’s awesome
bad: you eat more… which costs more

The movie “The Fountain”

good: … … … … … … it renewed my love for Hugh Jackman as Wolverine and no other character?
bad: EVERYTHING. Don’t see this movie…

Not having a computer at home:

good: I spend a lot more time reading and going outside…
bad: …I don’t get anything in my life done and i lose touch..

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Holy CRAP

Written by Katie Kish in CFI, Center For Inquiry, School Schtuff

You move to Toronto and the rest of your life goes to shit - yo. I’m living between Allen and John right now and working in my new position as Assistant Director at the Centre for Inquiry - Ontario. I think the most important thing that I’ve done in my 3 weeks here is that I’ve gotten us a resident cat. Her name is theory, and she likes to chase nothing. Seriously. She’ll run around the centre at lightening speed chasing absolutely nothing. I lover her to death. Her official role in the centre is “captain of morale” because she keeps us all really happy.

That is the cat… and the intern… and part of our new HUGE library!! (5500 book donation!) Anyway, she’s awesome and cute and meows a LOT.

Other news: I get my new place in 2 weeks. I’m living in North York, so I’m right by the school… like an hour commute to CFI/downtown, but thats alright. That gives me an hour of quiet subway time everyday, which I don’t mind. This is also my last year of school… and the courses I’m take are as followed:

Fall:

Foundations of Environmental Politics: Development, Globalization, and Justice
Foundations of Environment and Culture: Philosophy, Arts, Technology and Education
Female Spirituality: Comparative Perspectives - Western Traditions
Quantitative Methods in Environmental Studies
Introduction to Logic (again, I know.)

Winter

The first 2 again, because they’re year long classes…
Introduction to Feminist Philosophy
Nations and Nationalism
Sex, Gender and Nature: Ecofeminist Perspectives
Introduction to Applied Ethics

…ergo - I will be raging feminist by the end of the year. :D I think the foundations of enviro and culture class will drive me a little bit nuts, but it’s required for the major that I’m doing. I have the logic course to keep me sane, anyway.

More later! <3

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I guess it’s about time for me to weigh in on how the weekend went. All in all it was a good time… there were more interactive sessions this year, which I thought was a lot more effective than us sitting around and listening to lectures. We got there late on Thursday because we left CFI later than intended, and then got caught in traffic. Derek from Halifax was sooo anxious to get there, it was adorable. Anyway - eventually we did get there just in time to do an intro - I was so brain dead that my intro was basically “uh, hey. im katie kish… i run the guelph group and do a lot of radio stuff…thanks.” Slightly embarrassing but I as running on like 20 minutes sleep.

From Guelph me, Patrick and Will were there, so it was cool to have a good group repping Guelph. Especially at the Canadian section of the conference, i was glad we had a few of us there. I think the splitting of the Canadians and the Americans was the most productive time of the conference. I have absolutely nothing against the Americans, i love them all to death, but I think its really important to have that separation, and it was everyone’s favorite part of the conference. Well, everyone that i talked to anyway, it was just really productive and nice to talk to all the Canadians one on one. We did a lot that couldn’t have been done in the bigger groups and talked a lot of Canadian politic stuff, which was pretty important too. And did lists of people who can help out in different areas of stuff - so i think that will come in handy a lot in the future.

Post conference stuff was a lot like last year, lots of fun conversations and gatherings. Thats when i really got to know people on a personal level and got to see them interacting with other people out of a “professional” atmosphere. …if that’s the right word…

Max Maven was there, and he put on a performance, i thought he was more of an entertainer than a magician, but I wasn’t all…*that* entertained. Ive never really liked magicians in the first place… I thought he’d change my mind, but… he didn’t really. I think the best speaker was definitely Austin Dacey, he was moving and awesome, as usual. The guy totally has things…so elegantly right. It’s great to hear him speak.

Besides that, there isn’t much to report. The best part was meeting all the people. It was good to meet Ian and Eric from Alberta, and Derek from Halifax! It was also fantastic to see Derek from BC again, it had been years since I had seen him. Dan Riley is a super nice guy, and Im glad he got the position at CFI, he seems to be really good at it. Although I didn’t see much of them I was happy to see Lauren and Debbie again, and of course DJ. It was a whole new group of Americans this year, which was great to see! They all had their fantastic qualities to them like Lucia, Matt McClair, Dave Fletcher (!!!), Chris Olson and … and the list goes all … they didn’t dissapoint one bit.

Over all, the sessions this year were a lot better. There was a lot more productive conversations, and more time to share ideas about what works and what doesn’t work. At the Canadian session especially it was good to hear everyone talk about their specific areas of interest because they were all so passionate about it. I think it was really good to let everyone have their say in things instead of us listening to a lot of people talk… about non-student oriented stuff.

I think the only thing I am disappointed about this year… was that I personally didn’t talk to enough community members. I was really hoping Id have gotten to know them better this year, but it didn’t happen. But, thats my own fault, not CFI’s. Anyway, it was a good time! I plan on deconstructing a few things in further detail in the next couple days (because I’ll be back at a computer!! woo!)… such as:

- social gatherings after the conference
- communities helping with campus stuff and vice vers
- splitting by region
- the new podcast…
- bad words and why we can’t all think like capitalists…

I know this is a pretty positive post of me to write, but I honestly don’t have a lot of negative feedback… Last year I was very jumpy bumpy about it because it was my first year, and I wasn’t quite so cynical, this year I have a thing or two… but, that’s to be expected from me :) and i’ll get to it later. but really, it was a good time, and im glad I went.

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